The Ultimate Gay
Beachy yet urban, laid-back yet sophisticated – Sydney is the best of everything Australia has to offer in terms of culture, food, scenery, and surf. It also happens to be one of the most gay-friendly cities in the world. Every year, it hosts what is arguably the biggest Pride event in the world in the form of its LGBT Mardi Gras parade, with thousands of revelers from around the world gathering to celebrate all things gay under the dazzling Australian summer sun.
However, Sydney is a year-round gay destination. With almost constant good weather and various trendy neighborhoods covered in rainbow flags, there is never a bad time to explore Sydney’s vibrant gay scene. LGBT venues range from all-out dance clubs to underground dive bars, upscale cocktail lounges, hipster craft beer joints, and enough drag shows to keep you knee-deep in glitter during your stay. For something more cultural, queer events and exhibitions can be found throughout the year in the city’s galleries and museums.
Don’t forget to head out East to Bondi Beach, one of the most famous beaches in Australia and a perfect place to check out the local talent. When you’re ready for some action, the city’s first-rate spas and cruise clubs will be happy to oblige.
Gayborhood Where Is It and Why Stay Near It
The main Sydney gayborhood is centered around the western part of Oxford Street, in the neighborhood of Darlinghurst. This Eastern suburb is a vibrant area filled with bars, cafes, restaurants, and clubs – many of them with rainbow flags proudly waving out front. An often-touted statistic is that 1 in 10 gay men in Sydney lives within two kilometers of Taylor Square at the heart of the gayborhood.
Every February/March, part of Oxford Street is shut down for the Mardi Gras parade, one of the biggest – if not the biggest – gay parties in the world. It’s well worth trying to be in town during this time of year, although of course you can expect higher hotel rates and advance booking is necessary.
This is a great area to stay in for a number of reasons. The city is large and spread out, so it helps to stay near the gayborhood if you plan to make the most of gay Sydney. Plus, Darlinghurst is a pretty strategic area to stay for general sightseeing. The tourist heart of the city is not far, with sights including the Opera House, Botanic Gardens, and the Museum of Sydney all within a 20-minute bus ride or half-hour walk from Taylor Square.
Other gay-friendly areas of Sydney include Crown Hill in Surry Hills (which is near Oxford Street) and King Street in Newtown, a bohemian neighborhood further West. Alternatively, if you’re in town to enjoy Sydney’s iconic beach and surf culture, you may want to stay around Bondi Beach. It may be one of the city’s most famous beaches, but it’s also the most popular beach with gay locals and visitors – head up to the Northern end to hang out where the locals are.
It’s worth noting that Sydney’s lockout laws, introduced in 2014, have severely affected the nightlife in Sydney’s CBD – including Darlinghurst and Surry Hills. These laws dictate 1:30 AM last entry and 3 AM last call in all bars and clubs in the area, which has limited the nightlife and caused some venues to shut down. Newtown is outside of this area, making it a good option for a longer night out.
Where to stay
Australia is a relatively pricey destination, and as the most popular city for tourism, Sydney is perhaps the most expensive of the lot. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t great value options to be found in the city. These two lists of hotels – Luxury + Mid-Range – are all in and around the Sydney gay village in Darlinghurst and Surry Hills. From this position you’re within walking distance to all the hottest gay bars, clubs and saunas in Sydney, and an easy train or bus ride to all the major tourist sights.
Australia Hottest Gay Apps
Looking to hook up in Sydney? Grindr is the city’s most popular gay dating app. Scruff has a strong following with the hairier, bearier guys. Tinder is popular often with those seeking longer-term relationships.
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Gays and The Law
Historically speaking, Australia as a whole has not always had the best record in regards to LGBT rights. This, however, has changed a lot in recent years, and the country is now among the world’s most gay-friendly. A landmark vote in 2017 finally legalized same-sex marriage across the country, and gay people have been formally protected from discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation since 2003.
As arguably the country’s biggest gay hub, Sydney is exceptionally gay-friendly. Gay couples are a common sight around Oxford Street, but they can also live openly throughout the city as a whole. Gay visitors to Sydney are highly unlikely to run into any trouble, and all accommodation will be gay-friendly.
It is worth noting that, if you choose to travel throughout the country, attitudes may be more conservative in rural areas and small towns. Within Sydney however, you are free to be as gay as your heart desires – especially when Mardi Gras rolls around.
Australia was one of the quickest countries in the world to respond to the HIV pandemic with appropriate public health programs. As a result, the country has been successful in keeping the spread of HIV under control. According to the most recent data, 63% of cases of HIV in Australia are attributed to men who have sex with men, and about 6.3% of men who have sex with men in Australia are living with HIV.
Getting tested in Sydney is straightforward and free for everyone. Ending HIV, an Australian charitable organization, has several testing centers dotted around the major gay hubs (Surry Hills, Oxford St, Newtown and Kings Cross). Of these, Darlinghurst is the most convenient for most gay visitors. You can book your test online here.